The other day a close friend said I was "flirting" and I didnt take it as a compliment. But it got me to thinking what other people consider flirting? Afterall, each person has their own thoughts on things, and since I am such a curious Cat, I decided to have a blog on the subject.
Now to me the definition of "flirting", isnt a good one. I have seen alot of women who "flirt" and they are "fake". It is like a game and they are trying to lure the men in like a fish on a hook. They just make the "hook" all sweet and tasty, then jerk the line once they get the guy. Then the poor guy finds out she is "nothing" like she was "baiting" him with.
I have known women who give men blowjobs while dating then stop after the wedding. It is like their mouths got pluged by the wedding ring. I have heard alot of them say, they "used" it to "get him" but really didnt like it. Other stupid shit like that. Or they have sex non stop with the guy, then freeze up colder than the tits on a Siberian witch, after the "I do's". Or even if there is no "marriage" the women use their flirting till they think they have the guy caught and then they revert to their true self. It's no wonder men want to try the "milk" before they buy the cow. I would too if the milk turned "sour" years before the expiration date.
I have also seen and experienced men doing the same. They have a different way of "baiting" but it is still the same goal. They want a woman, be it temporary or for more...so they turn on the "flirt". Come across all smooth and charming but once they think you are "theirs" the dark side comes out. You know the kind of men, right? The ones that while you are dating, they open doors for you, say sweet things and then POW! You sleep with them and they turn into the crotch scratching, burping the alphabet jerk who yells for more beer. (sorry guys, my experience with men isnt exactly stellar.lol)
I dont see what I do as "flirting", I am just being "me". If my "sassiness, sexiness or sensuality" catches a man's attention, it is "me"..not a game or a facade. A man wont get "hooked" and then find out that it was a game or a "trap". What you "see" with me, is what you "get". If I am giving you BJ's that make you think I can suck a golfball through a straw, trust me Baby, that ain't going to stop anytime soon. As for the hot sex part, I am usually the Nympho partner wondering why the turkey buzzard in the back yard is seeing more action than I am, and she only "mates" once a year.grrrrrrrr
So you see, when someone tells me I am "flirting" I take it to mean I am being "fake"...just trying to "catch" their attention.
What is your definiton of flirting?